Work through stressful childhood imprints with counseling!

Especially in our first years of life, the course for our attachment behavior is set, which of course later has an influence on our attachment behavior with our partner. But also what value we give ourselves in life, our self-esteem, how we see ourselves as ME in the world. Also how we approach challenges in life.

As a child we had four basic psychological needs:

1. The need for attachment

2. The need for autonomy and security

3. The need for pleasure

4. The need for self-esteem and recognition

When we have experienced an unhealthy level or lack of these needs, we are left with a negative imprint that can affect us throughout life if not addressed.

Which topics of your stressful childhood do we work on?

• My mother was with me unwanted pregnancy, I was allowed to feel all my life.
• Through experiencing the separation or divorce of my parents, I have developed unhealthy patterns for myself.
• Too many problems in the blended family (stepparents, stepsiblings) that still bother me today.
• Due to economic problems in the family, unfounded fears have developed in me.
• I still haven't gotten over the death of a relative (parents, siblings, grandparents, animal).
• Due to the illness of a parent or sibling (mentally, physically), I didn't feel seen.
• Living through experiences that still feel like they happened yesterday. (flash back)
• Emotional humiliation such as insults, accusations, breaking the child's will and exclusion.
• Medical intervention, surgery, serious illness or hospitalization.
• Emotional neglect due to little or no closeness or affection from significant others, even with economic security.
• Taken a wrong role in the family system.
• Being separated from mother and father for too long.
• Adopted values, beliefs and patterns that you want to break away from.
• Recognizing and processing attachment injuries, fear of attachment, attachment patterns.
• Experiences that are still deeply rooted and need to be processed.
• and much more

You are more than they told you!

What happens when we encounter a situation in adulthood that reminds us of an experience in childhood?

We feel the excessive demands of that time and are stuck as adults at the age of a child. We often experience it as if there is a destructive, hurtful part in us. While we know intellectually how to react, our brain "hangs" like a record over and over again at the same "scratch". We get stuck in the then overwhelmed "to deal with it alone".

The good news is:

With my counseling we can resolve issues of the "injured inner child" in the inner child work

Specifically, the following happens in coaching:

• We release deep-seated emotional burdens, attachment patterns and beliefs.
• You can leave the experiences behind you without reacting emotionally to them.
• The images of memory fade and the voices fall silent.
• Unconditional self-acceptance and self-esteem become healthy.
• In the future you will react “normally” as an adult to special situations.
• You can form and value healthy relationships.

Instead, we release positive emotions during my psychological counseling. And you experience and experience:

• relief
• joy
• confidence
• positive attitude towards life
• balanced physiology
• more health-related quality of life

Experience liberation from the burdens of childhood and experience highly positive effects on your personality development.

I would like to invite you to a free, no-obligation, 30-minute phone call to find out how I can help you.

To make an appointment, please WhatsApp me on +436642119997 or send me an email to: nicole@emotions-counselor.com

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