We all wish for a fulfilled, lively and nurturing partnership that withstands the storms of life, a connection in deep love!
We all wish for a fulfilled, lively and nurturing partnership that withstands the storms of life, a connection in deep love!
Since the 1990s, a new science of romantic love and bonding has emerged. Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy by Dr. Sue Johnson is based on this new science of love.
We do well when our relationships are good! Because relationship crises are existential crises. A relationship crisis means no longer being emotionally connected, which switches on the threat center of the primal panic in the brain, which in turn activates protective mechanisms. For example: criticism, demanding, clinging, smoothing things over or shutting down.
Goal of Emotionally Focused Couples Counseling:
I offer you my cooperation on these topics:
"Distance never destroys a relationship.
Closeness never builds a relationship.
It's about the mutual desire to be together
that ties two people in an everlasting bond"
Do you see yourself in any of these themes?
With an emotionally focused couples counseling you take the decisive step to solve your relationship crisis together. In couple counseling I create a framework in which the following is possible:
The partners can express their different needs, fears and concerns and clarify them with my help.This can be the starting point for a process of understanding in which the partners develop a deeper understanding of the conflict dynamics. And the partners recognize their own part in the conflict and appreciate the partner's personality anew. Ideally, this creates a deepened spiritual relationship with more flexibility, tolerance, openness and closeness.
This process creates a new basis for living together (instead of against each other). Together we define the goals for couples counseling and solve the problem areas.
The most important questions in our relationships are: "Are you there for me?" "Am I important to you?" "Can I rely on you?"
What do you need to bring?
The willingness for personal development. The will to reflect, to adapt one's own behavior. Time and commitment outside of sessions for practice and more bonding-focused couple time.
Do you notice the opportunity you take when you start couples counseling?
Before the conflicts become insurmountable and only a separation helps.
To make an appointment, please WhatsApp me on +436642119997 or send me an email to: nicole@emotions-counselor.com
Have you thought about it?
It is quite possible that your relationship problems are also related to your childhood and unresolved experiences. Bonding blocks from childhood are - unfortunately - commonplace and can be resolved. Would you like to find out how you can work them up? You'll find more about it here…
Read here
my articles too "Elixir of Life Love" and "Appreciation"
A summary of EFT Research
Nicole Katzenschlager, individual, couples and family counselor
ONLINE via ZOOM or in Mauritius at Ilot Fortier
Appointments from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.: +23058536099 (+ WhatsApp) or +436642119997 (WhatsApp)
outside please via email: nicole@emotions-counselor.com
or check appointments on my online calendar
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